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How do i ask her out  Hi Coach,

I’m Israel and i met a very beautiful lady in at a restaurant in a mall where i went to eat. I like her very much and i see her staring at …

Changing city  Hello,

I am writing this letter from the Netherlands. I am an average looking man who is looking for a relationship. I have been reading your website …

I Am A Girl Wanting a Guy – How To Make Him fall In Love  Hi there,
So there’s this guy (of course) and im pretty sure he has interest in me. We are both in the same grade and going to be seniors in high school….

she likes me or using me  I am a teenage boy.I m with this girl for 10 months or little more. i like this girl a lot. and i am not sure whether she likes me or not or is just using …

I have already kissed this girl. . . now what?  Hello coach, I have been talking to this beautiful girl for over 2 months now. I have kissed her plenty of times even had her on my lap while kissing her …

Will my long time “soulmate, and (recently brok up) ex GF get back together?  After 27 yrs of not seeing each other in our town,
Lisa and I ran into each other after 27 yrs, since we last dated, which lasted 8 months in the 80’…

Dating – Why is she acting this way  Hello,
I have known this sales girl who came to my office last month.She really pretty and capture my eyes.She did give me her service quotation with …

Why can’t I get a girl to go out with me?   I am a fairly attractive, 24 yr old male. I contantly get compliments on my looks. I have a good job, nice car.. not to brag, but I’ve always thought that …

I am Falling in love with my best friend  So I have been friends with this guy for over 3 years. When we first met it was more so for dating purposes.

After we hung out I started to like him….

Strange reply to a text message From My Girlfriend  Went on a date with a girl, she had a great time and I think she really fell for me as she kept talking to her friends about me all the time and said she …

Want a mans perspective  I contacted a man online 4 months ago. After the initial contact I let him take the lead. He never called but texted immediately.

We ended up meeting …

I have been rejected before, but never like this?  Hello, I recently met a girl a few weeks ago at a local singles event through a mutual friend. We hit it off good. After spending the rest of the night …

I m confused  I have a girlfriend, we are living in India. My name is Prashant and her name is Sumaiya. We both are doing graduation in India. We have a long distance …

Is she interested or not?  I recently received a text from a friend that said a girl I previously dated asked about me and wondered if I was single. She and her boyfriend of 2 years …

Why did she keep shying away?  Last night I went out on a date with a mature (late 20s) yet beautiful girl. This date was special because it was after I decided to crawl out of my hole …

I am not getting the desired response… from a girl  hi coach, I have a question for you. Actually there is a girl in my college. I have her phone number and only a few times we have talked through text messages….

What’s a clever/witty reply when a girl says she has a boyfriend?  When I was in a store I saw a girl who had remembered me from a couple months earlier. She said, “it’s been awhile” in a flirty voice. I also remembered …

How To Get Back Together With This Girl After A Mix Up  I’m 16 years of age and my name is Chaos. I’ve been dating this pretty girls for almost a week now. let say I approached her on monday and she agreed to …

Why Does She not want a relationship just now?  I met a 30 year old girl I am 50, she has 3 kids, divorced, and had some bad boyfriend experiences, she has been single for 8 months raising her kids alone,…

How can a real man should handle mean girls games?  Hi coach,

I was reading this great website and I read all over about being a”real man” when it comes to deal with beautiful women. I understand you …

Why she is pushing me away after showing so much interest in me?  Dear Coach,

I read some books about atracting young beautiful women and I understand some of the principles. I dated Laura once, we had a blast on that …

what do i do? I want to date me best frriends girlfriend  There is this girl I know, she used to be my best friend’s girlfriend. the 1st day my friend introduced her to me, I fall in love with her and the same …

she is not picking my call i want to know the reason why is she doing this with me  i used to love a girl , we studied together in college during our graduation days.i used to like her and even expressed my feelings to her.but she was …

how to start up a conversation with a girl whom i dont know??  Hello Sir, I m Revant and I love a girl from three months but i have been hiding this feeling and now its disturbing me a lot. I haven’t spoken to that …

Is she attracted to me and has feelings towards me or not?  Hi Coach,

My situation involves this young lady early to mid 20’s that, who’s in a very serious relationship, I’ve known for about 1.5 years. She works …

I want to get her to love me  Dear Coach,I wld rily appreciate if u can help me in this situation.I have this female friend and she is like the most beutyful girl I have seen around …

Is She A Nice Girls.. I proposed!  Thank you Coach for comprehensive pieces of advise you give. Am glad I came across your site.

There is this girls in office I became close to during …

Is there any way to gain back her trust after this?  Hey bro!

First of all, great site you’ve got here. I read through a few articles, and now I need your help with a specific matter.
Last year, I started …

were gonna meet somewhere  There is a photography competition adn i asked for her help
we are gonna meet somewhere to do it either my place or hers
So how i get her to not get …

I want to be her boyfriend and not just friends  Hello Coach,
I am from India.My name is Manish.
I love a girl, first i was in a friends category to her, kind of best friend than i Proposed her after …

Did I ruin my Chances  There is this girl I know from back in elementary school and I recently started talking to her through facebook as this is my only means of communication …

Giving it a Second Shot–learning From my Mistakes – Dating Question  Hey coach,

Well, about 6-7 months ago I fell strongly for a woman older than me–she’s 22, I’m 19. With her being the first woman I had attempted to …

Should I Date Her ? But She’s Older Than Me.  Dear Coach,

I’m a 28 y.o man and I’ve been friends with a 33 y.o woman for a few years now. She’s smart and attractive and we are really comfortable …

she is not picking my calls and the worse is also not replying my text  she attends my church and we started eying each other when i got home she sent me a text asking for my cousins number which i gave to her and then i started …

Is This Guy Attracted To Me, Or is He As Shy As I Am?  I just recently started classes at a large university. There is this guy in my English class who sits all the way up front opposite of me, and I sit all …

What Can I Do Inorder to Attract This girl so That i Can Ask Her Out   I have this girl in my work place.she is 20 years old.I am an international student,so my accent is not like the American one,but I speak good English….

I want to date my best friend, but she is with someone else and I may have screwed things up.  Dear Coach,
My story is somewhat of a long one so please bare with me. I’ll try to keep it as short as possible. I went to college in fall of 2010. I …

How To Get Her Back After Some Months – Old Flame  Hey Coach. I was just wondering if I could get some advice on what to do. You see, there’s this girl who I was pretty close with earlier (like around November-…

I am broke just because of dating many women.  Hi,

How is a guy supposed to date many woman when the average date costs over $100.00?
Dating is expensive and girls expect you to have money especially …

how to react to a women who is being rude and very obnoxious.   Hi,

I would like to know how to react to a women who is being rude and very obnoxious (especially if she’s with her friends) when you are trying to …

What To Do About This lady… Do I even Have a Chance??  Hi, here’s my story, i am very good friends with this woman I work with, she is in a relationship that she told me is not very good (ups and downs), he …

What’s he trying to do?  Ok so me and my boyfriend text everyday and in every conversation there has to be other girls involved. He says that she’s pretty cool and stuff then he …

A Girl Am Falling in Love With.. How To Get Her to Stick?  Hello,
here is how it all began. i have known this girl for about five months, we did not have any rapport, but we always said hello to each other. sometime …

Dating a guy that is double dating when do you call it quits?  I have been seeing a guy for about 5 months. He is 42, fit, cute fun and I really enjoy our time together. He is recently divorced from a 5 yr unhappy …

Girl I Met From Camp…, How to get Her back.  Hey Coach. So about a week ago, I attended this summer camp for the week. I ended up meeting this girl who’s from the same city as I am. The first day …

How To Get Back My Wife – She Seem To Be Pulling Away.  I married the most amazing beautiful french woman about 9 months ago but because she was so beautiful i was insecure jelous and when a few times i got …

what she think about me  hey coach i have been a very good friend with a girl since last 2 years.in first year she cares me a lot and she calls me regularly and always answer my …

No reply to SMS/Call/Email but she accepted facebook and gtalk invite  Hi from the Netherlands and great website, I am learning a lot from your website.

I am a student here in the Netherlands and am basically from India….

Where to meet teen age girls during summer (Urgent)!!!!!!!!!!!!  ok so i really want to find some “girl friends”(friends that are girls) this summer. But where do i look? Please help me. oh and i am going to the beach …

I Love Her And Want to Make Her fall in love  how can i make her fall in love with me online

How to Get my Girlfriend Back When The Break-up is Still Fresh?  This thread is about how to get back a girlfriend earlier, when the break up is still fresh… getting back together is easy if you push the right buttons,…

What Do I Say In The First 5 Minutes on Conversation  OK so imagine a house party, with some hot girls, I don’t have confidence issues and I can go up to a girl without problems but what gives me trouble is …

She is Very Reserved, She Some Time Speaks very nicely, But Some time in a Shrude manner?  she is a girl in my office two year elder to me. she is very different in nature, she usually don’t bother what ever is going on. She throws a lot of attitude….

When should i call or text a girl?  Hi am Seiku abt dis girl I met at e bank we ave seen each other at a place jxt a stone throw from my house b4 seein my house.am happy as she knew my sister …

She picked my call, what should I do?  Hi am back again.Am Seiku. For about a week now that I saw dis beautiful lady.I was sharing wit my friend who is very successful with women. He told me …

She does my pick my call  Please I met dis lady at a bank last Saturday and approach her wit confidence and talk as if I knew her. later asked of her number she gave me. I called …

How do I Not Get Emotionally Attacthed Quickly With Girls  How do I not get emotionally attached too quickly with pretty girl?
I feel I am sort of default programmed to do that, here is about me

I’m 19 and …

Several years of relationship and now she is with her X  Ok,

here’s one for you. With my fiancee for nine years, we still had our own homes for numerous reasons. We kept pushing each other away.

I wasn’…

How do I devolope the confidence to walk up to girls,  I am very shy around women so how do I build the kind of confidence that would have girl all around me. I want to be more confident, to be able to walk …

How not to Feel Odd in this situation With this Girl  My girlfriend is some how making me feel odd, I can’t understand why she wouldn’t want to talk to me in public events and when there are lots of people …

What it takes for a novice to attract women  I think I am a complete novice when it comes to women and dating, how do I attract hot girls without having to work out my -you know what. I haven’t been …

How to Attract Girls at My High School  how do I get girls interested in me at my high school I am a junior and i don’t like anyone at my school but I never really get the chance to sit next …

Why does she Always cancel our dates and yet shows interest  I met her about two months ago from her behavior she seemed totally lovely and one thing led to another and we started dating…About a month ago we went …

What Should I do When Another guy is Hitting on my Girl friend  I know that guys are used to hitting on my girlfriend but this one guy is getting me mad and I don’t know why. I am 20 and she is 19 and we’ve been friends …

I am falling in love with my best friend, how do i stop it?  She knows everything about me and we have been friends since we were in junior high. recently I can’t seem to get her out of my head and I just don’t know …

How to get things fixed with this girl please help me.?  OK I like this girl and we had gone out a couple of times, the first time we went to the club and we did some grinding and some. then the second day I …

Which Girl should I take to homecoming not sure please help  …And she lives like an hour away but my friend told me she told him that she only liked me as a friend before. so now I am confused can any one help …

What Should I say/do to this girl please help URGENT!!!!!  OK so I had my home coming last weekend and my date was a girl from my hockey team last season, (I am a guy by the way) so like I like her more than friends …

My girlfriend is mad at me and I don’t know why.  she just gets pissed at the slightest occurrence, when she sees me talking to another girl she wouldn’t talk to me for like a day and when I asked what …

I let her Go without speaking to her Please Help!  She was my class mate before she left for another school, I lost contact with her for six months, Actually I never had her number but then we see everyday …

I walked in on my girlfriend with another man and she said no (sex)  We met on friday and planned on going to see my friend on Saturday afternoon. then by 7pm same day she called me and said she was going to a party, initially …

My Girlfriend Thinks We would break up Soon help!  My girlfriend says she is too young to be in a relationship and also too young to decide if I am the right person for her, I really like her and I told …

How do I break up with my girl without hurting her feelings?  This is about how to break up with a girl without hurting her feelings…, Do you think it is ever possible to ditch a girl without hurting her feelings?…

How do I get over my ex-girlfriend when I see her everyday?  Actually, I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months this summer and I am not yet over her. I figured out recently that she is dating another guy and I …

I am A bit confused whether she is afraid of serious relationship  I was wondering if girls could sometimes get scared of being committed to one guy. I live in the same city with this girl I met her six months ago and …

Do you Think High School Dating would affect my grades?  There is this girl in my school that I like very much and she likes me too. but we are not dating yet because I have this thought that it could deal a …

I don’t know if I should ask this Girl out?  There is this girl in my place of work that is driving me crazy. initially we were just friends because we are in two separate departments and we get to …

What on earth is wrong with this girl I am dating  We have been seeing other for 2 months now and she has never for one day said i miss you not to talk of i love you, those world seem so hard for her to …

Why Does My girlfriend keep on Compering me with her Ex  I don’t know why she does this, I told her I don’t like it but she wouldn’t stop it she say things like I am not as good as him but I can take care of …

Does This Mean She Likes Me?  I was in a class and this girl who also happened to be my classmate walked up to me and sat beside me, we got talking until a teacher interrupted us. and …

A Dating Question) What To Do In This Situation  I graduated Last year and Came to this university, I am a freshman in a college, recently I became friends with a classmate and his group of friends from …

I just started a conversation with a girl in a party but how do I know if she want to hook up?  It’s my friends birthday party and i met this girl and we got talking she really looked like the nice types because she laughs at almost anything I say,…

How on earth do I keep her interested in me until we go out on a date  I just reconnected with my long lost girlfriend, we used to be pretty much fund of each other until we parted way but that was a year ago and recently …

Like how long does it usually take to get over a break up  I though initially that I could deal with this but now it is almost driving me crazy. here is the story.
I was dumped six months ago by my girlfriend….

I Just Met a Girl…How Do I Proceed?  So I was standing on the road waiting for a ride home and there was a beautiful girl standing right beside me. I managed to strike up a conversation(OK …

How Do I tell My perents That I want to go out on a date?  I am 18 and my parent wouldn’t know that. The question it how do I convince my Parent that I am old enough to make decisions. I am in love with a this …

Is it right or wrong to flirt with a girl while she’s in a relationship?  Let me get straight to the story I am 17 me and this girl talk a lot, have become pretty close just recently and we do a lot of talking and chatting on …

What really piss women off?  I have a little problem handling women and was wondering if you could help me. OK here is the details three months ago my friend invited me to his birthday …

Can People (my ex girlfriend) Ever Fall Back in love  Few months back, I broke up with my girlfriend and decided to move on. I have not spoken to her since then. Every once in a while, I pass her on campus,…

What else can I do that’s so romantic it’ll make her wanna cry?  I want to surprise my girlfriend with something extremely special..I’ve already done candle lit dinner with chocolate cake and a ring and rose peddles …

girl i took to homecoming not sure please help  So my date i took to homecoming is really cute and i like her more than friends but i didn’t know if she did or not.We were grinding and stuff and it was …

Am I a jerk for thinking she may be trying to dodge sex by saying she is sick  I don’t know if I should even ask this, I have a girlfriend that it seems like she does not want get beyond kissing. Whenever we talk about it, comes up …

How do I know when a girl truely likes me?  So there is this girl in my class and we are both in 10th grade she is kind like flirting with me, she stares at me all the time and always wants to sit …

How do I handle weakness around women?  I can’t seem to help this situation I kinda keep getting some sort of cold feet when I am talking to a lady especially the more beautiful ones how do i …

Seem like inexperienced guys are not attractive to hot girls?  Which is the right attitude to attracting and keeping girls. Pls i really need help here not that girls don’t come my way. Just that i always say or do …

How do I get this Girl to see me As her boyfriend instead of just friend.  I have been friends with this girls for months now and every time I talk about going out together she tells me we are just friend. atimes she comes very …

How do you get the courage to go out alone ?  In High School, I use to have plenty of friends,
including my supposedly best friend who became a
cop a 2 years ago, and doesn’t hang out with me no

How do I break up with my girlfreind  I have been with this girl for 8 months now formally we used to hang out together and do stuff but I have lost my interest in her. I think she still loves …

I want my girlfriend to really love me  Hello, how do make my girlfriend to really love me and be for me.I am actually stuck here. I know this girl whom I love very well but she is always talking …

How do I part ways with a girl who persistantly asks me out on dates but I have no ramantic interest in?  I’ve been on a few dates with this girl who continually asks me out. She likes me a little too much. This leads her to be very nervous and awkward when …

What to do after a girl accepts date ?  I’m going out for the first time in 3 years, I really don’t remember what to do at all. Today is Satueday, but my date is on Monday. I really don’t know …

what did she want me to do when I was sitting close to her?  I had a pretty months back that used to give me a lot of signals but her boyfriend was in the way so I looked another way

A month ago, I saw her pass …

what scares girls away when we plan a date days before?  I told her a week before.thinking things wouldn’t be more organized, I heard they prefer hearing it in the last minute, they call it surprise If I plan …

Do Women like inexperienced guys?  I would be 22 by next month, still clean i(f u know what i mean) with no experience of being in a relationship. Is that a turn off for pretty girls?

I …

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