girl i took to homecoming not sure please help

by Tommy
(newbury park )

So my date i took to homecoming is really cute and i like her more than friends but i didn’t know if she did or not.We were grinding and stuff and it was super cool. and when we slow danced she pulled herself super close to me and we were always smiling and laughing. and then when i was walking her to the door she held my hand all the way and i think she wanted me to kiss her but i didn’t get that gut feeling when you should you.She lives like an hour away but my friend told me she told him that she only liked me as a friend before. so now i am confused can any one help me? what should i do. should i go father and see if we could work something out? plus my friend told her to not give any sings she likes me more than a friend unless she would date me. oh and i have my own car and license.

And i am 16( also i cant stop thinking about here i have never felt this way before about a girl.I have had a gf before but that was in 9th grade and i never felt such strong feelings for a girl. . like my mind is always thinking “dude do not let this girl go she is the perfect girl” but then i also am like well maybe its cause i don’t like any other girls? oh and i can’t drive her anywhere cause my year isn’t up on my license. but she has a license to. so like idk what should i do? oh and she liked me when we played on the same team but i didn’t like her like that because she was my team mate and it just seemed weird for me to like her that way. but now since we are not on the same team anymore, but i told her that i liked her more than friends before the dance and she said that she didn’t know how she felt about me cause we hadn’t seen each other in so long. We cant hang out a lot so is it worth it. but we both can drive.

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girl i took to homecoming not sure please help

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move gently
by: Anonymous

Take your time

Go Get Her Dude
by: Dave Anan

Dude you already got the ball rolling, seems like you are still wondering if it is OK to make a forward move this is what i got to say “go take her dude” from the look of things “all that drawing close and stuff” I think she is pretty much into you but this is also where many guys loose it they think when a pretty girl show supper interest she wouldn’t ever leave no matter what they do. About what to do; in relationships and about dating women, when you want to grab it with two hands, you start loosing it, so don’t get desperate, take it slowly. About the car, you may not really need it. remember not to try to show off like you want to impress her, as pleasant as a pleasing attitude looks, it turns women off. The wussies attitude. look around the site!

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So tell me, how long do you really want to go with her?

response to dave
by: Anonymous

thanks for the advice man and i would love to actually date her like be her bf. Do you think i should’ve kissed her? and if i see her again and we hang out should i kiss her good night?

Kissing girls
by: Dave Anan

There are just no scientific rule for when to kiss a girl like what worked for john might not work for peter everybody got to listen to the wind to know when to make their own move. U wouldn’t want to kiss her when she is not in de mood or beg her for it’ try reading her body language whenever you think she is in de mood go ahead and kiss her but do it like it is the right thing to do. Like kissing her is de right thing to do. Women can follow you to any lenght if you behave like u know what u are doing. When u seem less confused. More detail see /art-of-kissing.html

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