Giving it a Second Shot–learning From my Mistakes – Dating Question
(Los Angeles, California, USA)
Well, about 6-7 months ago I fell strongly for a woman older than me–she’s 22, I’m 19. With her being the first woman I had attempted to pursue, I feel like I did come off insecure and was not a “man” during our time at coffee and conversations.
I had chased her but eventually gave up because of the mixed feelings and frustration I had received from all the confusion, especially with the age difference. I forgot about her for a couple months then we accidentally met at college and I THINK she showed some interest via Facebook by liking my status two hours after we met–pretty odd after all this time considering she had never like ANY of my previous statuses the months prior?
Regardless if she’s interested or not, I want to give it another shot, and this time the RIGHT way: being confident in myself, having logic over emotion, being “tough” yet respectful.
I personally don’t think it is a bad idea–I have nothing to lose–but wondered what you thought considering your valuable experience and knowledge.
From one man to another,