How do i ask her out

by Israel
(Lagos, Nigeria)

Hi Coach,

I’m Israel and i met a very beautiful lady in at a restaurant in a mall where i went to eat. I like her very much and i see her staring at me sometimes but we’ve never had a real conversation except a few words and that’s only when she’s taking my order.

I really want to ask her out but i’m very shy and scared that she may not be interested and i also noticed that she has a ring on her left finger and i do not want to upset her if she’s married.

However, i feel she likes me ‘cos as i said earlier, she stares at me and when i catch her staring, she lowers her gaze or pretends as if she wasn’t staring at me and she either adjusts her clothes or plays with her earrings.

My question is, how can i be very sure that i’m not just guessing that she likes me and does her wearing a ring on her left finger mean she’s married?

And if not, what should i do to make her know that i like her very much and would like to go out with her?


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How To ask Her Out NEW
by: Dave Anan

Hello Israel,
Thanks for sending in your question, I try as much as I am to be thorough with my answers but before that I need to learn a lot more about your crush and you.

I have written lots of articles on how to ask out a pretty girl and get her to show up, you don’t need to be scared or shy, I have been there done that. There is actually no reason to be scared since the obvious is that she either likes you or not.

In reality, women develop attraction for guys that behave in certain ways while they tend to shut out the wussies or at best keep then at distance.

Do you have her phone number?

how often do you guys communicate?

or you are just watching from a distance?

and the ring could mean any thing.

answer the questions about and we could hit it from there

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