How do I break up with my girl without hurting her feelings?

by Mike

This is about how to break up with a girl without hurting her feelings…, Do you think it is ever possible to ditch a girl without hurting her feelings?

OK This is it, Presently I am dating this funny, sharp girl. And this is not about her.

I broke up with my ex girlfriend like a month back because I sort of can’t put up with her clingy attitude.(It was inappropriate and sudden but it is the only option i had) I am 20 and she is 20 too, we started off and the going was great until she became desperately needy, we never had sex but we did often play around after which I needed my space but she was the always calling, always texting type and really; I just wasn’t as attracted to her as I needed to be. And I wasn’t also reciprocating her kind gestures.

Breaking up became inevitable when she started coming to my house every other minute and asking about me, playing with my sisters. That was me ex. Fast-forward to the new girl. last night, I received a mail from her in which she tells me that she really wants us to be together and also told me that I can get sex from her if I just ask.

I kinda can’t put up with this kind of commitments. These mail completely turned me off, I don’t know if it is pretty bad I get to leave girls when they become too desperate, is it just like that with every other girl? I will definitely pass up her offer but I don’t know how to do that in A rather mild way without hurting her pretty bad. thanks for the help

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How do I break up with my girl without hurting her feelings?

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Girls are like that…deal with it!
by: Criag

I get it, young people are always fighting to break loose, we don’t always want her skin to stick with us. but these girls, they don’t seem to see it that way. once a guy says I love you, they would want to chum him up! not fair.

How to Break up Without Hurting her
by: Dave Anan

I really think it is not possible to break up with any girl without hurting her feelings, except in rare cases where the love in your relationship literally diminished… the only reason to bask upon is the fact that it is for the greater good and I just hope you guys are not yet neck deep into the relationship

If you are breaking up with her for very flimsy reasons then I would completely object but if it is for the greater good, then you need to really talk to her and give her viable and potent reasons. Even at that… it would still hurt

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go cold
by: Justus

The best way, gradually go cold on her without her feeling it. Stop practising the things men do to attract women. Eventually she may even get attracted to sone other guy and dump you.

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