How do I devolope the confidence to walk up to girls,

I am very shy around women so how do I build the kind of confidence that would have girl all around me. I want to be more confident, to be able to walk up to hot girl and say the right thing, What does it really take to attract hot girls. OK, I am 21 and have been in a lot of relationships, nothing really serious though. but I am still kind of shy around women. I don’t really wanna be a flirt but I just want to be able to walk up to women and have them singing my songs (like you said).

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How do I devolope the confidence to walk up to girls,

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how to gerner confidence when approaching girls
by: Dave Anan

It’s quite easy to get confident when dealing with women if only you can focus and refuse to ACCEPT failure, don’t work out you ass trying to please women or get them to accommodate you, the best you can do is – be the man she always dream of having. Yes, women always wanna get stuck with real men and not just any man. buying gift or giving compliments to get women makes you look like any man and not the real man. I know you want to know how to have confidence in approaching that next hot chick. the idea is to quit being shy and cut out those please take me attitude.

See this page all about how to have confidence while approaching a new girl

Improve Self Esteem
by: Jake

There are several pages on this site that are basically about improving your self confidence, you need to find them to change your whole perception of women.

This is one of such pages about – How To Improve Your Self Esteem

Some guys tend to loose their ground when a pretty girl shows up, I remember those days, I used to be really scared of walking up to a pretty girl or starting up a conversation but things have changed and thanks to articles on this site.

I realized that there is no instant confidence booster, I had to learn the hard way. I was told that I just needed to keep trying and at some point it started being easier.

I just had to walk into the field of play, I screwed up so many times but I became confident eventually. Now I feel like I can walk up to any girl and start up a stimulating conversation without whimpering.

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