How not to Feel Odd in this situation With this Girl

My girlfriend is some how making me feel odd, I can’t understand why she wouldn’t want to talk to me in public events and when there are lots of people around. Okay, here’s what’s going on. I’m in the last year of high school and my last serious relationship packed up in early October, just to be clear. (it was a real tough one as we often don’t always agree) I have this new girlfriend that I’ve been going out with since early to mid November and I’m not sure about her when were around our friends. See, in private she can be a bit affectionate but when were with our group of friends she hardly ever acknowledges me, unless I say something to her or someone mentions me to her or I’m leaving.

I really think this is not moving the relationship to any reasonable height, and also the hide and seek game is taking off lots of our communication time, we hardly have time to talk as she always pretend like she doesn’t know me when people are around.

My question – What do you think I should do about this? just keep watching and swallowing hard, I am scared of letting her go because sometimes it seem really like she loves me and then another time I wouldn’t just know how to deal with her rather apt-attitude



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How not to Feel Odd in this situation With this Girl

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Why she wouldn’t want to hang out in public places
by: Anonymous

I think the best thing you can do is talk to her and know her take on the matter. Ask her questions, try to know why she doesn’t want to show off your relationship. I have done that before but that’s when I am out with a girl that I don’t really like, some one that is not probably looking good. And this is almost the only reason why a girl wouldn’t want her friends to see you together.

Only when she is not proud of you and like I said – talk to her, I think dialogue solve more problems in relationship than any other aid. And lastly, seem like you are playing the nice guy part here try getting tough


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