I am falling in love with my best friend, how do i stop it?

by k1

She knows everything about me and we have been friends since we were in junior high. recently I can’t seem to get her out of my head and I just don’t know how to make the move. I have been in relationship before but we broke up(I mean with another girl) And now I feel this is an opportunity of a life time. I am torn between the fact that things could go sour and we loose a friendship of four years.

Please I need help with this, should I take my chances, what if I get rejected, I don’t want to loose her either way. Or should I just sheet my sword and try hard to curb my hunger for her? any one in this kind of situation before? please help

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I am falling in love with my best friend, how do i stop it?

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How to Make my Best Friend Fall in Love
by: Dave Anan

Hey, you are definitely not out in line here this is an everyday occurrence. I was once in this situation and somebody said …try flirting…then super flirting and that just did it. OK, let me tell you how it went. She was my dear best friend in high school, we ate together sleep together(without the sleeping part though) we liked each other and she often told me stories of her affairs with other guys. at some point I started being jealous then some more jealousy. Then I shot straight at it and surprisingly she said she was waiting for me to ask.

More help on how to make a best friend fall in love – flirting tips for men

And lastly make the move, I think if she has been a good friend she would understand if ti doesn’t work. all the best

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