I don’t know if I should ask this Girl out?

by Super
(Canada)

There is this girl in my place of work that is driving me crazy. initially we were just friends because we are in two separate departments and we get to see only in the evening. Actually I have this group of friends who told me I couldn’t ask her out because i am an a** hole I told them I am not, i am simple and cool and confident but they said I can’t. yesterday we were sitting together in a bar but we didn’t talk to each other because we didn’t know what to talk about and she wasn’t looking my way like she was interested or something. Not that I wasn’t confident enough to approach her, it is just that i wasn’t sure if she was going to want to talk to me. I intend asking her out during the weekend and I think I might get rejected. because we seem not compatible and she doesn’t hang out with the like of my friends and I. So do you still think I should take my chances and ask her out?



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I don’t know if I should ask this Girl out?

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You should ask her out
by: Dave Anan

I wonder how you came to the conclusion that she probably honor your date because she is not compatible with I even wonder more how you know she doesn’t like you and your friends when you have not as little as said “hi” If there is any thing girls do perfectly well, It is concealing their attraction for a “bad guy” seem you and your friends got this weird behavior that gets girls confused, it is fine. It is one of those characters of the so called “bad guy” and you know the “bad guys,” they get all the girls.

You really think you are confident, but your are not confident enough to take a dive without minding the implication only trusting your glory! haha! that’s what keeps the tough guys with more girls “trying” I think you got this fear of rejection See this post Dealing with the fears of rejection when approaching women

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