I have been rejected before, but never like this?
Hello, I recently met a girl a few weeks ago at a local singles event through a mutual friend. We hit it off good. After spending the rest of the night hanging out and going to another bar location after the event,
we eventually said our goodbyes, exchanged info, and I pecked her on the cheek. Over the next week or so, we texted back and forth daily to great vibes. Her birthday was then the following weekend, so she texted me that morning inviting me to meet her out.
I brought a friend and we went. Everything seemingly was great, the usual signs of progression took place(sitting on my lap, hand holding) and at the conclusion of the night I walked her to her car. I planned to kiss her regardless, but she beat me to the punch and pulled me in. At that point, I began to have thoughts of a possible dating situation.
The next day was her actual birthday, so I sent her a cute little thing by text that afternoon saying happy birthday and can’t wait to see you again. She then didn’t respond the rest of the day (despite requesting me as a friend on facebook that morning?) and most of the following day until finally, the following night, she said, thanks for the birthday wishes.
I thought this was odd, but decided to just proceed normally rather then questioning anything. We again texted a bit, I made her laugh a few times as I had been doing the week prior and when we hung out.
Again, things seemed normal. I figured I should mention seeing her again, so, I then sent the following text: “lets hang out again, I want to get to know you better not via text.
I think you’re fun and a good kisser.” I didn’t think that was too extreme? Regardless, I haven’t heard from her since. That was about 5 days ago. I usually don’t get too bothered by a girl not being interested, but the way this transpired has me completely boggled.
I haven’t sent another text, because I don’t want to seem desperate or needy, although I am dieing to know what could have possibly happened. Her mutual friend had told me the night I met her she is definitely single and looking, so it is not a case of another guy.
If you have any insight as to what might have gone wrong please let me know. I have been rejected by girls before and just moved on, but never like this, which is why it is bothering me. What might have happened and how should I proceed? I don’t want to come off needy and like I am chasing her. Please help.