Is she interested or not?
(Newport, ky, us)
I recently received a text from a friend that said a girl I previously dated asked about me and wondered if I was single. She and her boyfriend of 2 years separated 2 months prior. I am single so I got the girls number and we started talking and set a date up. The date went great, we only hugged after, and she told our mutual friend she had a good time.
I went a couple days without talking to her, not necessarily on purpose but we didn’t speak. She eventually contacted me to take our dogs to the dog park, I said yes and we set the date for a Saturday. On the Friday before she rescheduled for Sunday. Which actually worked better for me.
When she rescheduled I asked her to dinner after the dog park, she said yes. We went to the dog park and decided where to eat dinner and set a time. About 2 hours before we were supposed to meet she cancelled. I am a to the point guy and I asked her if something else was going on.
She said no, she is just a homebody and that she is still a little stand offish due to her ex. I told her I understand, but I had fun with her and I would be willing to go to her place if that would help. I also said I understand the ex problem and I am not going to pressure her into anything.
I then said whenever she wants me to come over I will see what I can do. I guess my question is do you think she might be interested? I should say my natural personality is cocky funny. And it seems she sends the right signals, she makes eye contact, she helps keep the conversation going, plus she beat me to the punch for the second date, yet she has rescheduled and cancelled a date.