she is not picking my call i want to know the reason why is she doing this with me

by prakash
(bokaro, india)

i used to love a girl , we studied together in college during our graduation days.i used to like her and even expressed my feelings to her.but she was already in a relationship but i seriously din know about this.

she at first rejected mine proposal but later on proposed to remain friends.thus my relationship with her started. I often use to call her sometimes she use to pick my calls and sometimes she didn’ between this she had breakup with her boyfriend I don’t know the reason why?then she got close to me and we started talking regularly.

She helped me a lot of time even i did reciprocated in the same way.but she never accepted my love as a boyfriend.we remain as a friend for two years. We had many verbal fights in between this and it became more frequent during our last college days, because she din use to pick my call and nor she use to reply to my messages even after three days.

This use to annoy me and i use to ask the reason for this and she use to say that she was not well and she was upset. 15 days back we had a verbal fight again due to same reason. Now i want to quit from this relationship. I am fed up with this attitude of her. I know she is not going to come after me nor i will do so.i am busy with my higher studies.but i wanted to know what happened at sudden that she stopped picking my call.

I called her so many times but she din pick my call nor messaged me back. should i call her again. or should i forget all these things and get back to my work. I don’t want her any more but i want to know the answer.hope my question will be clear to you sir. I will be waiting for your reply with a great hope.

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Why she wouldn’t pick my calls
by: Dave Anan

Hello Prakash,
How is India? I will give you a simple answer first and then a comprehensive answer as to why a pretty girl would suddenly stop answering your call or replying to ur text messages. If you have seen most of my articles you should’ve at least been able to understand that desperation turns off pretty girls or when you try so hard to impress them, answer everytime she calls, tell her you would do anything for her – Play the nice guy path – and act strckly to avoid screwing up. Not simply huh!

But really, there are lots of reasons why a girl would stop picking your calls more especially when you have been in the ‘friends zone’ for a very long time. I have seen many relationships that dwindled at this stage and most of the time the problemt would be traced back to the guy.

Most times it is about our attitude and approach.

Tell me, do you think it is your fault or hers that the relationship is breaking??

You said you are fed up with her but I know the transition process wouldn’t be an easy one or do you honestly think you can let go?

She is not picking my calls
by: Anonymous

There are many reasons Why A Girl Wouldn’t Pick Your Calls or reply to your text message

I outlined a lot of those reasons on the above wonderful article.

But if you want to think outside the box with me here, some girls could just wanna be alone not because you are not good or because you are not attractive enough, as a matter of fact I don’t accept all the girls that come my way, even way prettier ones.

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