What Should I say/do to this girl please help URGENT!!!!!

by Tommy
(USA)

OK so I had my home coming last weekend and my date was a girl from my hockey team last season, (I am a guy by the way) so like I like her more than friends but I didn’t know if she did or not. but like we were grinding and stuff and it was super cool. and when we slow danced she pulled herself super close to me and we were always smiling and laughing. and then when i was walking her to the door she held my hand all the way and i think she wanted me to kiss her but i didn’t get that guy feeling when you should you know what I mean people.

And she lives like an hour away but my friend told me she told him that she only liked me as a friend before. so now I am confused can any one help me? what should i do. should I go further and see if we could work something out? plus my friend told her to not give any signs she likes me more than a friend unless she would date me. oh and I have my own car and license. and i am 16( also i cant stop thinking about her, I have never felt this way before about a girl. I have had a gf before but that was in 9th grade and I never felt such strong feelings for a girl. . like my mind is always thinking “dude do not let this girl go she is the perfect girl” but then i also am like well maybe its cause i don’t like any other girls? oh and i can’t drive her anywhere cause my year isn’t up on my license.

But she has a license too. so like idk what should i do? oh and she liked me when we played on the same team but i didn’t like her like that because she was my team mate and it just seemed weird for me to like her that way. but now since we are not on the same team anymore, but i told her that i liked her more than friends before the dance and she said that she didn’t know how she felt about me cause we hadn’t seen each other in so long. we cant hang out a lot so is it worth it?

Now then the other day she told my friend over facebook on this formspring thing that he was cute then started flirting with him. and my friend only met her once and doesn’t like her. and then I called her out on it and she told me she was just messing around and that she thought he was cute. then I told her that I liked her and that I was just waiting for us to hang out so I could show her. and this week I have a tournament at the same rink as her brother. so we might hang out. if we do how can i show her i like her more than friends. what should i say/do
please help URGENT!!!!!



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