Why did she keep shying away?

Last night I went out on a date with a mature (late 20s) yet beautiful girl. This date was special because it was after I decided to crawl out of my hole and try out many tips I garnered from websites like this one.

We had agreed on the place and time. I arrived first, she arrived thirty minutes later, although she called stating she’d be late because of traffic. When she arrived, I gave her a soft hug, which accepted. She apologized for coming late, I accepted. During the course of the date, I made physical contact; first brushing my arms against hers, and then holding her hand.

She had absolutely no problem with the former, but was initially hesitant with the latter. While seated on a park bench I would extend my arm on top of the backrest. I noticed then that she would avoid leaning completely against the backrest. Towards the end of the date, when walking towards the park exit, I extended my arm around her waist. She immediately, and gently took the hand away from her waist and held it against the small of her back until we went away separate ways.

What should I make of these actions?


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Why did she keep shying away?

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Why she Is Shying Away On A First Date
by: Dave Anan

What you are seeing is the character of the average nice American girl, most girls are that way – they won’t ever throw the rest at you until they are sure you are in for the long haul.

In a relationship, most guys are interested in getting physical while the girls really look up to romance and commitment – marriage and long term relationship.

Real Men learn to balance the odd by following most of the principles outlined on this site.

But do you honestly expect her to grad at you on a first date??

What do you really expect from her? I want to know so we can move along together

why she is shying away?
by: Adlan

Most girls are like that especially on first dates and you just can’t help it, the only effective solution is to give them time. The often always improve with time.

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